I have a great idea! Let's so cater to our children that they will be dissatisfied with life on their own -- trying to lower their expectations to meet the lifestyle they can afford on an early-career paycheck-- that they'll move back in! No empty nest! No dissatisfied kids!
Oh, wait...we already did that, and now the colleges are following suit.
Some people call them the "Baby On Board Generation" others the Millenials:
A note to all those Millennials who demand the same private bathrooms and vegetarian meals that they got at home: College dorms are supposed to be yucky for the same reason that your parents aren't supposed to wait on you hand and foot when you're a teen - it's so that you eventually want to grow up and move out and take care of your own precious self. College is something you leave for something better. And unlike at home, you won't get to hang around for years for free if you get hooked on those comfy dorm rooms.
Mel Levine's new book, Ready or Not: Here Life Comes touches on the modern middle-class (and above) habit of making home life so sweet for teens that they don't want to move into adulthood.
'Smart' classrooms, ritzy dorms lure 'Millennials'
Local colleges are rushing to build high-tech classrooms and plush dormitories for a new breed of students who grew up with the Internet and were pampered by parents.
Xavier University is planning a new campus quadrangle with high-tech classrooms and a ritzy residence hall to oblige what school officials call the "Baby on Board" generation or the "Millennials" coming of age at the turn of the millennium.
"Their parents posted 'Baby on Board' signs in their cars. They have been protected as children. Their free time was replaced by organized activities and structured programs. They have a high need for achievement and attention," said Xavier spokeswoman Kelly Leon.
She said this generation prefers learning from hands-on experience, craves technology-generated education, and feels comfortable working in teams.
"Millennial students do not learn in the traditional ways of 50, 30 or even 10 years ago," said Xavier President Michael Graham. "We need to adapt our campus to their needs and changing times."
Northern Kentucky University boasts a $38 million state-of-the-art science building and a $14 million suite-style dormitory and is planning a swanky $34 million student union building.
"These new developments for higher education are not at all new for students coming out of high school," said NKU President James Votruba. "Today's youngsters have lived with high-technology from video arcades to cell phones, and many have their own computers.
"At home, most have not shared a bedroom and many have not shared a bathroom. When they come to college, they expect the same creature comforts. That puts pressure on all colleges because there is competition for these students."
This pressure on area colleges mirrors a national trend by educators to accommodate changes in society.
Gateway Community and Technical College is building a new main campus in Boone County and launching a $15 million expansion of its nursing program on the Edgewood campus.
"Community and technical colleges especially have to be on the leading edge of technology," said Gateway President Edward Hughes. "If we're not utilizing leading-edge equipment, then we're not preparing students for what they're going to find in the real world.
"For example, hospitals are becoming paperless. Charts aren't written, they're electronically produced. Prescriptions are becoming more electronic. If you're not providing nursing or pharmacy students with knowledge of how that technology works, they will find themselves alone on an island at work."
The University of Cincinnati is renovating buildings to turn them into so-called "smart classrooms" with Internet connections, computers that play DVDs and projectors that display documents.
"I teach a class in public relations, and in a standard classroom that's like teaching blindfolded with your hands tied behind your back," said UC spokesman Greg Hand.
"In a smart classroom, for instance, if I'm talking about how to conduct an interview, I can call up an interview off the National Public Radio Web site to use as an example. I can call up a transcript of that interview from LexisNexis.
"I can walk students through something I heard on the way to work that day - something that is alive and relevant to today's students."
UC is even catering to the changing eating habits of students by providing new types of food service.
"Students don't want to eat at set hours or set meals," said Hand. "We have a place called Market Point with several food stations like deli, stir-fry, pasta and salads. It's more like a buffet than a cafeteria.
"When students say they're vegetarian, that doesn't mean they just skip meat, they want a full range of vegetarian selections."
Thomas More College is raising $2.5 million to renovate its science facilities, which were built in 1971.
President Sister Margaret Stallmeyer said the upgrade is essential to compete with other area colleges that have made similar improvements.
Cincinnati State Technical and Community College recently opened a glitzy $55 million building that provides high-tech classrooms, student lounges, racquetball courts, a fitness center and a bakery.
The College of Mount St. Joseph is in the midst of a $21.5 million construction project that includes new facilities for athletics and student activities and renovation of a residence hall to add suites for more student privacy.
Miami University last weekend announced a $350 million fund-raising drive for a myriad of projects, including classroom renovations, a new fine arts facility, a new student center at the Middletown campus and a conservatory on the Hamilton campus.
The building boom is expensive, but there's no choice if colleges are to keep up with technology and provide what students need to succeed in a rapidly evolving world, said Hughes, the Gateway president.
"If a college stood pat, it would lose ground rapidly," he said. "Much technology is outdated within a year. The life expectancy of some technology is three to six months.
"One of the most challenging issues faced by colleges is how to stay up with the changes of technology. We have a technology team that looks at new technology and decides what we can afford."
Votruba, the NKU president, said despite the high cost, "it's incumbent on all colleges to stay up with the times and invest in the things that enhance student experience."
Once high-tech equipment is purchased, it sometimes can be a challenge to keep it.
"We've had to ratchet up security across campus because we've been losing $40,000 of equipment a year," noted Votruba. "Stealing chalk is one thing, but stealing an overhead projector is something else."
Maybe we should begin talking about "the good-enough" school, the "good-enough" home life. I know I'm ready to start a movement. Here's
[Contemporary American parents] have experienced an epidemic of career unreadiness as too many young people begin what [Mel Levine] calls "the startup years" unprepared for the challenge of initiating a productive life.
Parents and schools often raise children in a highly structured world of overscheduled activities, meeting kids' demands for immediate gratification but leaving them unable to cope on their own. Instead of making a smooth transition into adulthood, many youngsters find themselves trapped in their teenage years, traveling down the wrong career road, unable to function in the world of work. These young people have failed, says Dr. Levine, to properly assess their strengths and weaknesses and have never learned the basics of choosing and advancing through the stages of a career.
Dr. Levine urges that schools focus less on college prep (which, he points out, generally means "college admissions prep") and instead teach "life prep," equipping adolescents with what they will need to succeed as adults. He identifies these skills as falling within four growth processes, "the four I's": inner direction, or self-awareness; interpretation, or understanding the outside world; instrumentation, or the acquisition of mental tools; and interaction, or the ability to relate to other people effectively. It is these abilities that ensure a successful transition into the startup years of early adulthood. Parents, schools, and adolescents themselves can all work together to improve work-life readiness, and Dr. Levine shows how. He even offers advice for young adults who find themselves unable to navigate the world of careers.
I think it's true that kids (and parents) see themselves as consumers, and college life as the product that they are buying. But to be fair, many colleges have residency rules that stipulate that students MUST live on campus and eat the cafeteria food. My college did. My college also charged the same exorbitant fee for my tiny dorm room as it did for my neighbor's larger room. I didn't save any money by sharing my room with a stranger, either. This isn't exactly a model of what housing is like in the real world. In the real world I would have shopped around for an apartment, saved money by having a roommate, and bought my own food (and catered to my own dietary needs in the process). If universities are going to act as landlords, then they should expect the same kind of market pressure that landlords are under.
I'm not sure why there can't be some happy medium in providing safe but modest accomodations for students. The point is not to create hardship OR luxury. This isn't summer camp where one is supposed to "rough it" with a sleeping bag and a can of bug spray, nor is it the Waldorf-Astoria.
One thing that bugged me is that vegetarianism was mentioned as evidence of kids being pampered and expecting -- how dare they! -- food that actually fit their dietary needs. Vegetarianism is an ethical and nutritional choice, not a symptom of being spoiled.
Posted by: Lisa | Thursday, April 28, 2005 at 02:37 AM
It seems like every generation is accused of coddling their kids. Even if the colleges spruce up their campuses, there will still be boring lectures to attend, texts to read, papers to write, and finals to take. I don't think any of my college luxuries did me any harm. In fact, they probably enabled me to do my work and learn to the best of my ability without having to worry about other things. In any case, everything's relative.
Posted by: cottontimer | Thursday, April 28, 2005 at 03:08 AM